Requests from the Back Seat

The girls are getting to the stage where they each have their opinions of what should be playing on the radio when we're driving.

E-- Mom. Push the button and play Move it, Move it.
R-- Praise 106.5, please. *singing at the top of her lungs*
A-- Nothing with talking, Mom.

But, I control the radio.

My strategy-- get everyone where they need to be... alive... and without fighting.

So, when I want them to look out the window or if they are just ignoring me, I turn on some traffic/ news station. This is only good for short trips.

Peace and quiet= "Adventures in Odyssey". They've heard all the recordings a million times, but they still call for them again and again. I've heard them so many times I actually tune them out and start singing. This action leads to cries of "stop singing" and "turn it up, I can't hear". So, I just drive.

Mom's turn= CBC. Yup. I'm turning into my mother. She always listened to this. I like the fact that I can arrive at my destination more informed than I was at the beginning of the trip.

Alone time= Nothing on the radio. Relish the silence. This only works when there are no kids in the car. This is the best time to pray. I love the drive to work.

Let's talk= No Radio. No Tape. No CD. Just quiet. The best part of the school day are the 10 minutes in the van on the way home. Listen to the chatter. I hear so many things. "you like so-and-so?!" "I have so much homework". "Today, no one played with me!" "That was such a great lunch". "Piano Lessons?!" So many important conversations happen in the confines of a vehicle. I think I'll do the "birds and bees" talk in the car. With the kid in the backseat-- trapped. At night, so she can't see my face, but can still ask questions. This day is approaching very quickly.

Dad's turn= The fist-pumpin'-head- bangin' sounds of the latest rock legend. Played really really loud. I hate it when he's in charge of the radio. But, a deals a deal. You drive, you get to control the radio. I'm so busy handing out snacks and baby wipes that the noise just becomes background after a while.

Mom's going crazy= loud dance radio. You'll see and hear us coming. We like to car dance.

You'll be able to tell what kind of day it is by what's on the radio.



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